Thursday, June 21, 2012

MARRIAGE AND FAMILY MENTORING

EQUIPPING COUPLES TO WIN AT THE MARRIAGE GAME!


A great marriage is not something you HAVE, it's something you DO!

Think about that idea! Do we treat our marriage as if it's just supposed to magically and romantically turn out great for the rest of our lives?

If a great marriage is something you do instead of have, why didn't they give us a "How-To" manual with our marriage certificate?

CHANGE YOUR MARRIAGE FOREVER AND YOUR FAMILY FOR GENERATIONS!

The Marriage and Family Mentoring Program will help you understand that even a great marriage can get better. But most importantly, by understanding some basic principles on how a healthy marriage functions, even the most troublesome or boring marriages can be fixed and brought back to a healthy, vigorous and enjoyable life!

After years of searching for answers, we found that there's not just one simple fix to develop a great marriage.

We did find however, that it is possible to understand the logistics of why each spouse functions the way that they do!

When you finally begin to understand why you think and act the way you do and why your spouse seems totally different, you can learn how to help them feel fulfilled in the relationship!

When they begin to feel their needs met once more, they'll most likely begin to go out of their way to fulfill yours!

That's a Win-Win situation!

IT'S LIKE FINDING AN OWNERS MANUAL FOR YOUR MARRIAGE!

A great marriage is really about serving each other and striving to meet the needs of your spouse. The problem is that all too often, because we don't understand each other, we don't know how to fill those needs!

Think about this. Have you ever tried to do something really nice for your spouse, maybe even something that you really put a lot of thought and effort into, only to have them not appreciate it? Or worse yet, to express anger or frustration about it?

Believe it or not, situations like this happen all too often in most marriages.

INTERPRETING THE DIVORCE RATE STATISTICS CORRECTLY!

If we have a divorce rate that is somewhere near the 50% mark in our country, what does that tell us about how many truly great marriages exist out there?

If 50% of us are giving up and calling it quits, how many others are just taking an attitude of tolerance or an uneasy truce just for the sake of the kids or simply because we believe in honoring our commitments?

News flash - Marriage was meant to be a rich, rewarding and fulfilling experience! Notice we didn't say simple and easy!

What happens is that, because nobody has ever taught us the basic principles of human relationships and interactions, we try to just slide right through life operating on the same level that we managed to get along with growing up at home.

Come and be Mentored by a couple who has been blessed with a successful marriage but who has not been content to stop there! We wanted to find out why parts of our relationship were going well but others were definitely not. We are constantly looking for ways to improve our relationship and ideas that we can share with others who want a better home life!

IT'S REALLY ALL ABOUT LEARNING PRINCIPLES NOT TRYING STRATEGIES!

There really are several basic principles that govern having a great marriage! The problem is that nobody has ever gathered them together to teach them to us in a way that is clear and effective!

That's our mission here at The Marriage and Family Mentoring Program! It really does MAKE SENSE!

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